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		<title>How Steve became the coach</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Twenty years as a journalist helped Steve DeVane learn how to ask powerful, direct questions. Now, he uses those skills as a coach, helping people live better lives. Coaches make it easier for people to find out where they want to go in life and how best to get there. ]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div id="attachment_41" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 224px"><img class="size-medium wp-image-41" title="stevethecoach" src="http://stevethecoach.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/10/stevethecoach-214x300.jpg" alt="Steve DeVane" width="214" height="300" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Steve DeVane</p></div>
<p>Twenty years as a journalist helped Steve DeVane learn how to <strong>ask powerful, direct questions</strong>. Now, he uses those skills as a coach, helping people live better lives.</p>
<p>Coaches make it easier for people to find out <strong>where they want to go in life and how best to get there</strong>. Coaching provides a framework that increases the chances that the person being coached is heading to where that person will be happiest while taking the easiest and most fun path to get there.</p>
<p>In many ways, Steve has been coaching for most of his life, helping friends and associates work their way through various issues and predicaments.<br />
His coaching clients have included those in a wide variety of professions. If there’s a gap between where you are and where you want to be and if you’re willing to grow, Steve&#8217;s coaching can change your life.</p>
<p>He’ll help you take bigger, better and <strong>smarter action</strong>s.</p>
<p>He’ll help you have a <strong>balanced life</strong> that works well.</p>
<p>He’ll help you reach for more and not be consumed in the process.</p>
<p>He’ll help you make <strong>better decisions</strong> because your focus will be clearer.</p>
<p>He’ll help you have <strong>more energy</strong> by getting you on track and helping you stay there.</p>
<p>Steve is certified through <a href="http://www.hollifield.org/valwood/" target="_blank" onclick="pageTracker._trackPageview('/outgoing/www.hollifield.org/valwood/?referer=');">Valwood Christian Leadership Coaching</a>. He is the co-writer of &#8220;<a href="http://soulful-leadership.com/about_the_book" target="_blank" onclick="pageTracker._trackPageview('/outgoing/soulful-leadership.com/about_the_book?referer=');">Making Shifts without Making Waves: A Coach Approach to Soulful Leadership</a>.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>Steve&#8217;s coaching can change your life</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Oct 2009 20:48:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[What Steve does as a coach &#8230;
• Listens openly and actively in every conversation
• Asks powerful, direct questions
• Reflects back to you what he hears you saying
• Offers different perspectives and options
• Holds you accountable to your vision and goals
• Trusts you to make your own decisions
• Appreciates, endorses and supports you
• Requests that you take [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>What Steve does as a coach &#8230;</strong></p>
<p>• Listens openly and actively in every conversation<br />
• Asks powerful, direct questions<br />
• Reflects back to you what he hears you saying<br />
• Offers different perspectives and options<br />
• Holds you accountable to your vision and goals<br />
• Trusts you to make your own decisions<br />
• Appreciates, endorses and supports you<br />
• Requests that you take action or complete assignments</p>
<p><strong>What Steve doesn’t do as a coach &#8230;</strong></p>
<p>• Diagnose or treat anything<br />
• Provide counseling or therapy<br />
• Set the agenda for our conversations<br />
• Solve your problems for you<br />
• Do your work for you<br />
• Try to fix you<br />
• Judge you<br />
• Give you &#8220;hard&#8221; advice (e.g. legal, financial, etc.)<br />
• Take responsibility for your decisions, feelings or actions</p>
<p><strong>What Steve asks of you as his client &#8230;</strong></p>
<p>• Supply the agenda or topic of discussion for each session<br />
• Be willing to tell the truth to me and to yourself<br />
• Be willing to stretch yourself<br />
• Call on time for the sessions<br />
• Approach challenges as great opportunities for growth<br />
• Let him know if something isn&#8217;t working for you in the partnership<br />
• When he asks you to take some action or complete an assignment, feel free to accept the challenge, negotiate for what is right for you or decline.</p>
<p><a href="/free-coaching-intro/" target="_self">Find out how you can experience coaching</a>.</p>
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		<title>Steve helped me work through challenges</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Steve&#8217;s clients make positive steps forward. Consider these stories.
I had been perpetually frustrated by my inability to “get organized” and my propensity for staying stuck in the same old bad habits. Over the years I had searched in vain for just the right organizational system to get the job done. Steve helped me see that [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Steve&#8217;s clients make positive steps forward. Consider these stories.</p>
<p>I had been perpetually frustrated by my inability to “get organized” and my propensity for staying stuck in the same old bad habits. Over the years I had searched in vain for just the right organizational system to get the job done. Steve helped me see that the answer was not in a commercial product but inside myself. By helping me to clarify problems and identify solutions and by challenging me to turn ideas into doable actions, I have made real progress, step by step, over the past few months. My colleagues are noticing the positive changes. Even more importantly, I am holding myself in much higher regard! I am getting things done and feeling more effective (and less stressed out) in my career than ever before. I’d recommend Steve’s services to anybody looking to make real changes.<br />
—<strong> Speech therapist, Raleigh, N.C.</strong></p>
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<p>Steve has helped me work through several challenges I am facing with some clear steps to follow for success.  He has asked good questions that have helped me explore my desired goals and options to achieve them.<br />
— <strong>Minister, Loveland, Colo.</strong></p>
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<p>I commend Steve DeVane to you.  He has been one of the top &#8221;go to people&#8221; on my list when I need to reflect and get centered. He brings an outstanding wholistic approach to his work.<br />
— <strong>Educator, Dunn, N.C.</strong></p>
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<p>Steve DeVane is officially described as a coach. I like to refer to him as a “maze man.” That is because the complicated issues of life are often like a maze. Steve, though, listens to me attentively and then asks the right questions to help me regain perspective and develop an action plan. To say I am healthier after one of our “maze man” sessions is an understatement.  I thank God for Steve!<br />
— <strong>Minister, Wake Forest, N.C.</strong></p>
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